About

When You’re Ready
A note from me to you

I don’t know when you’ll come across this or what kind of moment you’ll be in when you do.
You might be in your 20s, starting out.
You might be in your 50s, rethinking how you’ve always done things.
You might be somewhere in between or nowhere near either.
And that’s exactly who this is for.

I didn’t make this as a guidebook or a blueprint.
I made it as a reflection pool something to return to when the noise outside
grows louder than your own voice inside.

The truth is, I don’t have answers for your life.
What I do have are questions, tools, and stories that helped me untangle mine.
Not to teach you what to think but to help you find your own way of seeing.

I’ve tried to remove my bias where I can, knowing that my past shapes
my views and that we all carry lenses we didn’t choose.
What’s here isn’t about persuading you. It’s not about changing your mind.
It’s about offering possibilities when you feel ready to ask,
“Is there a different way to see this?”
“Is the way I’ve always seen it still true for me now?”

We are never finished.
We’re not fixed. We evolve—or we stay still by choice.
And that’s the beauty of it: nothing in here is urgent.
It waits.

You don’t need to read all of it.
You don’t need to agree with any of it.
Take what’s useful. Question what isn’t.
And trust that, when the time is right, something in here might meet
you with exactly what you didn’t know you needed.

I made this first for my daughters, but I also made it for anyone
quietly doing the hard work of becoming. You don’t have to do it alone.